{"id":576,"date":"2015-06-05T16:00:10","date_gmt":"2015-06-05T23:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sarahdimento.com\/~sarah\/?p=576"},"modified":"2015-06-26T15:05:25","modified_gmt":"2015-06-26T22:05:25","slug":"on-collaboration-equal-does-not-equal-same","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sarahdimento.com\/~sarah\/on-collaboration-equal-does-not-equal-same\/","title":{"rendered":"On Collaboration: Equal Does Not Equal Same"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Collaborating with others is a learned skill. One most people don\u2019t learn properly in school because most teachers just throw a bunch of students together and hope for the best. The students almost always divide the work the same way: so everyone gets a smaller piece of the same job. This is not how projects work in real life because shit actually needs to get done, and it\u2019s the worst way to go about it.<\/p>\n<p>For example, in university I was once saddled with a group who thought sharing the workload meant everyone had to write a report and recite it in front of the class \u2013 independently. It could hardly be called a \u201cgroup\u201d at all. I tried to work for better cohesion: playing MC, tying people\u2019s ideas together, and trying to engage the audience. I even tried to teach the rest of the group to memorize their shit so they wouldn\u2019t stand there mumbling with their noses in their notes, but guess what they did come presentation time. Each was in their own little world, boring the shit out of everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>One girl didn\u2019t present at all, which I didn\u2019t think was a problem because she\u2019d dutifully taken on all the boring logistical problems the group had: taking responsibility for research materials, organizing people\u2019s notes, getting the AV equipment. She\u2019d done more work than anyone, but those immature assholes didn\u2019t recognize it because it wasn\u2019t the exact same work they were doing. When they started bitching at teacher that she shouldn\u2019t get the same grade, I told them all to STFU and listed every contribution she\u2019d made.<\/p>\n<p>When you put people together and force them all to drudge through the same tasks, everyone\u2019s performance is dragged down. What you end up with is an <em>idiot group<\/em>: one where the output matches the lowest performer involved. The only way to solve this is to find different tasks that fit each person\u2019s skill-set and interests. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses. A smart group delegates jobs based on people\u2019s individual strengths and covers their weaknesses.<\/p>\n<p>If everyone was as good as everyone else at the same things there would be no need to collaborate in the first place. The whole point of forming a group is to cover all necessary aspects of a project that can\u2019t be done alone. The best collaborations I\u2019ve had were with people who slotted well into all the gaps that needed filling, where people loved doing jobs others hated. Everyone at once could think, \u201cI\u2019m so glad I\u2019m doing X and not Y,\u201d and be confident that someone else was getting Y done because it\u2019s a job the other person enjoys.<\/p>\n<p>People do their best work when they love it (and continue to love it even when it\u2019s frustrating). 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